Stop Dream of Older Women Seeking Younger Men and Start Date Them

Young Men Looking for Older Women Because They’re Hot AF

While the traditional view of age-gap hookups and dating might suggest older guys chasing younger women, the reality is a lot more… completely different! In fact, around 81% of women say that they’d be open to dating or hookups with younger men. Yeah, don’t drop your jaw, buddy.

While we might refer to men seeking out those older women looking for a hookup with a younger guy, the reality is that they’re not necessarily the ones doing the hunting. The one who is prey, it’s you, buddy. They are cougars indeed. Aren’t they? Plenty of guys, same as any older woman - more confident. They know what they want, and they’ve got the experience/stamina to go and get it. Honestly, that’s a pretty hot combination whether you’re dating or just looking for a casual hookup.

There’s a load of misconceptions about age-gap relationships, especially ones that feature an older woman. The assumption is that they’re dating for purely physical reasons: she’s just looking for some fun, and he’s just looking for someone to mother him. The reality is that, yeah, sometimes a hookup is just a hookup, but there are plenty of happy couples out there with noticeably different numbers of candles on their birthday cakes who genuinely enjoy their dating lives.

The term cougar, while it’s a handy shorthand, doesn’t really describe the situation very well at all. Older women are three-dimensional people, just like younger guys are. And what you can get is a real relationship or hookup with two people. Two people that just want the same. Isn’t it enough?

Who Is the Safest Older Dating Site? Nu-Date Is!

Who is the good boy? The one that looks for an older women hookup, of course! Whether you’re an older woman who likes younger guys or a guy who likes older girls, looking for love, or just looking for fun, Nu-Date is a great place to meet, hook up, and get a date.

One of the best things about our online dating site is the range of options, and if you’re a young guy looking for older women to hook up with (or an older woman looking for younger guys), we’ve got that covered.

Having such a range of people, all looking for fun, dating, and hookups, means that the pressure is off. If it doesn’t work out or you get the ick, block and move on. You’ll never be short of an opportunity to talk to older women or young guys on Nu-Date. We’ve got a great balance between both groups, so you’re free to be choosy.

Following on from that last point, we’ve got a zero-tolerance policy for harassment. Those are fantastic privacy policies, and we really do look after your data. Pinkie promise! You don’t want your private life to become public, and neither do we. No one ever enjoyed dating online when they had one eye over their shoulder, so looking after you is our number one priority.

How to Meet Older Women Online? Profile Tips? Naah

We all know the usual stuff that usually goes here on dating sites: pick your profile picture carefully, craft a compelling bio, and be yourself, so we won’t cover it today. That stuff all goes without saying and everyone is doing it anyway.

What you need to stand out are tips that stand out themselves, so here we go:

• Be Sexy: What do you think those older women looking in a young guy for a hookup? What does he eat on his breakfast? As if. Keep in mind that you have plenty of competitors on Nu-Date. So what you should prove in the first place is that you’re the sexiest young human being out there. So turn your charm on.
• Watch your tongue: pick words that pique their interest without giving too much away. You want them to want to read more so that they can watch your tongue elsewhere.
• Be clear about what you want: many men who’re into older women are looking for emotional maturity. Others are looking to hop on the good foot and do the naughty things with someone who knows what they like. Both are fine, but don’t pretend to want one when you really want the other. That’s icky.
• Don’t be too overt: maybe you’re both just looking for fun, and that’s fine, but dude, she can get that from the contents of her nightstand. A hookup might be the goal, but there’s flirting to do first.
• Work on your openers: there’s a fine line between funny “You’re funny, I like you!” and funny “OMG, just smile, no need to open your mouth.” Find out where the balance is because you have only one chance to avoid being shared in the group chat. Or worse. Live to be a meme.

FAQ

What Is It Called When An Older Woman Likes a Younger Man?

There are loads of words used to describe older women who hook up or go dating with younger guys. Some of them aren’t very nice, but why get caught up in labels and other people’s expectations? If you’re a cougar, embrace it because many guys are looking to “embrace” you…

How Do I Meet a Middle Aged Woman?

The same way you hook up with anyone else.

You could go to all the effort of bar-hopping, hoping to get lucky and meet someone who’s open to dating you, or you could sit there and build a quirky, intriguing profile and let the algorithms do their thing. Nu-date has a bustling community of older women looking for fun with younger guys and younger guys who love older women. Come join them.

How to Flirt With Older Women?

There’s no great secret to flirting with older women online. It’s all about building a connection, and there are lots of ways to do that: be funny, be charming, but most of all, be present. Listening and playing off what she says is always a winner.

Can a younger-man-older-woman relationship work?

You think not? Of course, it can. There are plenty of examples of age-gap relationships that are perfectly happy, fulfilling, and packed with that magic combo of love and lust. Even if it doesn’t work out this time, there’s no reason to assume the next attempt at age-gap dating won’t. Get out there and look for some fun, and see where it goes!